Lessons from a Mama's Heart

Dear Child of Mine,

In a world that is uncertain due to tragic events or life choices, hold fast to these truths.  Read them over and over again until they anchor your soul.

·      You are loved.  Nothing you do will ever change that. 

·      Be authentic.  Be who you are.  Let the inside & the outside match.  Don’t try to impress with outward appearances.  What really shows is the heart, so ask your heart how it’s doing. 

·      Take responsibility for yourself.  You are not a victim.

·      Be kind to everyone, especially children.

·      Play.  Laugh.  Dance.  Sing.  Be silly.  It’s good for your heart.

·      Every day is a new day…a fresh start. 

·      Forgive.  Holding onto hurt causes bitterness.  Bitterness will drive people away from you; forgiveness will draw them to you.

·      Relationships are what matter most.  Build bridges, not walls.  This is true personally & professionally.

·      Persevere.  Good things come to those who do their best & don’t give up.

·      What matters most about a person is the heart…not skin color, looks, height, weight, money or popularity.

·      Education is the key to your future.

·      Find your fit.

·      It’s okay to ask for help.

·      There’s usually more than one way to get where you’re going.

·      You can always come home.

·      Take time to process.  Let yourself feel what you need to feel.  Talk things through.  There is no need to rush big decisions.

·      It’s okay not to be okay. 

·      You are a Treasure!

·      Connection…relationship…is more important than being right.

·      Life is a great adventure.  Enjoy the ride!

Always remember…I love you.

With all my heart,

Mama